This past weekend, I had a conversation with my mom that left me reflecting deeply on something I’ve felt for a long time but haven’t always had the words to express. She was trying to encourage me, reminding me of my strength, of how I come from a long line of strong Black women, including... Continue Reading →
The Fallout
Have you ever tried to fight against the current of the ocean?Yeah, that’s what my life felt like. Nobody really talks about the fallout when things end. Not the pretty version, not the “I bounced back” version. I’m talking about the aftermath when the dust settles and your normal no longer exists. Nothing prepares you... Continue Reading →
The Breakdown
Imagine setting a table for a dinner party that you had been painstakingly planning for quite some time. You’ve taken care to make sure that even the smallest details had been attended to just so that your guests would be comfortable. However, during the hustle and bustle of preparing for this perfect dinner party, you... Continue Reading →
Rebuilding When Everything Familiar Falls Apart: The Introduction
Recently, I thought back to the previous two years about how different my life has become and I wanted to share how far God bent me but didn't break me. I literally was at the lowest point of my life and did not know whether or not I was going to make it to see... Continue Reading →
Drop It: When Carrying Other People’s Burdens Costs You Your Peace
For the past two years, I have been wrestling with deep unhappiness in my career. I remember when I first started out, how excited I was to meet new people. Many felt comfortable with me quickly and would share intimate details about their lives. I felt honored to be a safe space. I listened without... Continue Reading →
